Have A Very Merry Christmas: Staying Strong Through the Most Wonderful Time of the Year

The end of the year doesn’t mean the end of your progress. If you’ve trained hard for twelve months, Christmas isn’t a threat to your goals; it’s the reward for having them.

You don’t need perfection. You need intention.

This season is about joy, connection, celebration, and, yes, great food. Here’s how to honor your momentum while enjoying the holiday the way it’s meant to be enjoyed.

The 3 Holiday Non-Negotiables

Let’s clear one thing up immediately: December is not the month to white-knuckle your way through parties and potlucks. It’s the month to stay anchored to what matters without losing your mind, your friends, or your muscle.

1. Earned Enjoyment > Empty Indulgence

Restriction doesn’t build discipline; consistency does. One plate of your favorite Christmas dinner won’t derail anything. A month of “whatever, who cares?” absolutely will.

The difference is awareness, not anxiety.

Here’s a simple guideline that works for most people:

  • Build your plate around the foods you genuinely enjoy.
  • Eat slowly enough to taste it.
  • Stop when you’re satisfied, not stuffed.

That’s it. No food guilt. No drama. No moral judgment of anyone’s cooking.

Christmas dinner is not a metabolic emergency.

What not to do:

• Don’t “earn” your food with cardio.
• Don’t starve yourself all day to “save calories.”
• Don’t narrate your macros at the table (honestly, no one cares)

What to do:

• Move because it feels good, not because you feel guilty.
• Eat like normal leading up to the feast so you don’t binge from hunger.
• Say “yes,” “no,” or “I’m good, thanks” with zero explanation.

Food is part of the celebration. So is self-respect. You’re allowed to have both.

2. Don’t Skip Lifting, Protein, and Carbs

To channel my inner Jocko:

Traveling? Good.
Schedules scrambled? Good.
Gym hours weird? Good.

Your body doesn’t need perfect conditions; it needs the right signals and the right supply:

Signal:

  • Any resistance training at all.
  • 20 minutes of bodyweight, bands, dumbbells, hotel gym—whatever you’ve got.
  • This preserves muscle protein synthesis and keeps neuromuscular patterns active.

Supply:

  • ~30–40g protein + a moderate serving of carbohydrates per meal.
  • Protein maintains lean mass.
  • Carbs replenish glycogen and support training, sleep, and recovery.

This combo is one of the most research-supported ways to maintain muscle during chaotic schedules. Protein stimulates muscle protein synthesis for 3-5 hours post-meal, while carbohydrates replenish muscle glycogen and reduce cortisol, both critical when training volume or sleep quality drops.

Two habits. Huge return.

3. Stay Hydrated, Even in Celebration Mode

Holiday cocktails, desserts, and rich foods, enjoy them. Just don’t forget water.

A simple rule that works: One drink? Drink at least one 8 oz. glass of water.

An even better rule: Don’t drink.

Hydration directly affects recovery, digestion, appetite, performance, and whether you wake up feeling human or like you got hit by a truck.

Here’s what most people get wrong: they think the problem is too much food on Christmas. It’s not. The problem is eating like a monk for 3 days before and 4 days after, then binging because restriction always backfires. One great meal won’t hurt you. Seven days of chaos will.

Rituals > Rules

Rules restrict you. Rituals support you. A ritual says, “This is who I am, regardless of the season.”

A few reliable ones:

  • A family walk before or after the big meal
  • A 15–20 minute lift or circuit before coffee and gifts
  • Getting adequate sleep before traveling
  • A quick protein + fat snack before heading to dinner so you arrive in control, not starving

A rule says “no dessert.” A ritual says “I train before the family meal because it centers me.” One feels like punishment. The other feels like identity.

Rituals reinforce identity. And identity, not willpower, is what keeps people consistent long term.

You’re not someone who “tries to stay healthy.”
You’re someone who trains, eats with intention, and still enjoys Christmas like a sane adult.

Consistency Compounds

Your results don’t come from Christmas Day. They come from what you do the other 364 days.

If you’ve been consistent for 50 weeks and ease up for two? That’s a 94% success rate. You know what a 94% success rate means in any other domain? Elite. Professional. World-class.

But for some reason, people think two weeks of relaxed eating erases a year of work. It doesn’t.  Math doesn’t care about your guilt.

If you haven’t been consistent this year? Then let Christmas be a reset, not a regret.

Start small:

  • Take a walk
  • Get a lift in (when all else fails, do something as simple as alternating Tabata intervals of bodyweight squats (full ROM!) and sit-ups, in 8 minutes, you’ll be done, it’s really that easy)
  • Pack a protein shake for travel.
  • Decide now that January is not “starting over,” it’s continuing forward.

Momentum respects one thing: action. Preferably today.

Final Thought

Fuel your work.

Feed your life.

Let Christmas be a celebration of both. Enjoy the food, the family, the music, the lights, the peace, and the moment.

A merry, strong, and “muscular” Christmas isn’t about rigid rules; it’s about honoring the discipline that got you here and trusting yourself enough to enjoy the holiday without fear.

Merry Christmas to every one of you. Stay strong, enjoy the feast, and remember discipline isn’t what stops you from celebrating. It’s what lets you celebrate without fear.

BCAAs Are Overrated — Here’s What to Do Instead

There was a time when tossing a neon scoop of BCAAs into your shaker cup felt like a secret code, like a sign that you were truly “dialed in.” Fast forward a few years, and the science is pretty blunt: if you’re already eating enough high-quality protein, those branched-chain amino acids aren’t doing much besides lightening your wallet.

Let’s break it down.

1. You’re Already Getting Plenty

BCAAs (leucine, isoleucine, valine) are just three of the nine essential amino acids your body needs to repair and build muscle. They’re naturally found in every solid protein source: meat, fish, eggs, dairy, and even plants. In fact, most whole protein sources already contain the 2-3 grams of leucine per meal needed to maximize muscle protein synthesis, making isolated BCAA supplements redundant.

If you eat real food and hit roughly 1.6–2.2 grams of protein per kilogram of body weight, you’re already covered. Studies keep confirming it: supplementing with BCAAs doesn’t outperform simply consuming complete protein. Here’s why: muscle protein synthesis requires all nine essential amino acids to activate mTOR signaling, the metabolic pathway that triggers muscle growth. BCAAs alone can’t complete the job. Without the full amino acid lineup, your body can’t finish the muscle-building process.

Unless your diet is severely lacking protein, that fancy powder isn’t rescuing anything.

2. Pop Culture Made It Cool — But Not Useful

Let’s be honest: a lot of this stuck around because of marketing and muscle culture. The fitness industry turned hydration into a brand identity with bright colors, bold claims, and goofy influencers sipping between sets like it’s rocket fuel.

It looks serious. It feels like doing something extra. But feeling busy isn’t the same as being productive. In truth, most BCAA use today is psychological, the ritual of “recovery in a cup” more than any measurable physiological edge.

Field note: I’ve worked with hundreds of lifters and athletes and not one of them ever turned a corner in strength, body comp, or recovery because they added BCAAs. But I’ve seen countless athletes break plateaus when they fixed their sleep schedule, added 20 grams of protein to breakfast, or simply trained with more consistency. The wins come from the boring fundamentals, not the colorful supplements.

3. The Paleo/Keto Twist

Here’s where a lot of people overcomplicate it.

If you’re following Paleo or keto and already eating quality animal protein, steak, tuna, salmon, eggs, you’re getting plenty of BCAAs naturally. The supplement is redundant.

But here’s the real issue: many low-carb folks turn to BCAAs because they’re afraid strategic carbs will derail their progress. They won’t. If you’re training hard two or three times a week, your muscles need readily available fuel. Natural carb sources like fruit, bananas, berries, oranges, apples, et cetera, around your training window will do more for performance and recovery than any BCAA powder.

That’s not breaking Paleo. That’s being smart. And it’s cheaper than another tub of supplements.

4. When Supplements Actually Make Sense

To be fair, there are scenarios where amino acid supplementation has merit but even then, BCAAs aren’t your best option.

If you’re training fasted (early morning workouts before you can eat), recovering from an injury where whole food intake is compromised, or genuinely struggling to meet your protein needs through diet alone, a full EAA supplement or quality whey protein makes far more sense than BCAAs.

Why? They deliver the complete amino acid profile your body needs to rebuild tissue and trigger muscle protein synthesis, not just the marketing-friendly three. You’re getting the full toolkit, not just a hammer.

Otherwise? Eat real food, train with purpose, sleep hard, repeat. Oh, and if you’re a vegan or vegetarian, you will need to use supplements to meet your BCAA and EAA needs, but that’s a story for another time.

The Takeaway

Most people sipping BCAAs are already getting what they need from their plate.

The supplement industry thrives on making simple things feel complicated. They profit when you believe that food alone isn’t enough—that you need their powders, their timing protocols, their proprietary blends to unlock results.

But the truth is simpler and cheaper: eat quality protein, train consistently, sleep well, and your body will handle the rest. The fundamentals work. They’ve always worked. And no neon powder changes that.

Save your money for real food, a good night’s sleep, or maybe a new pair of shoes for the trail. If you’re eating enough quality protein, you’re already doing what BCAAs promise — only better, and for less.

Fueling Your Cybersecurity: How To Eat Right for Cyber Success

Cybersecurity incidents don’t care how well you slept or ate. They happen anytime. If your body feels slow, your mind will too.

That’s why nutrition isn’t just about physique or gym numbers. It’s about resilience.

A strong body fuels a sharp mind, which makes you a stronger IT professional.

Before jumping in, you might ask: how do you build nutrition habits that fuel performance, even under pressure? Let’s break it down with these five rules:

Rule #1: Always Eat Protein First

If there’s one macro nutrient that changes everything, it’s protein. Most people under-eat it, even those who train.

  • Why it matters: Protein saves muscle, keeps you full longer, and helps your body burn more calories.
  • Aim for .75 to 1g per pound of lean or target body weight. Spread it across meals: eggs at breakfast, chicken or beef at lunch, fish at dinner, or a shake if needed.

Think of protein like a system update: without it, your body gradually weakens until you notice it, and by then it’s too late.

Carbs, like protein, provide 4 calories per gram.

Carbs get demonized needlessly. If you train hard, they’re your gas pedal—not optional.

  • Performance: Carbs fuel high-intensity efforts (CrossFit, sprints, heavy lifts). They refill glycogen so your “engine” doesn’t sputter.
  • Focus: Complex carbs—including all fruits, vegetables, and grains like rice—keep blood sugar steady. That means steady energy and fewer crashes.

The key isn’t cutting carbs. What matters is eating quality carbs at the right times.

  • Hard training days? Eat more.
  • Recovery days? Dial it back a bit.

Rule #3: Fats – The Slow-Burn Energy Source

Fats do not give quick energy like carbs, but they help you last longer. Fats are essential for hormone production, brain function, and recovery.

  • Prioritize avocados, nuts, olive oil, walnut oil, and sesame oil, as well as grass-fed, wild-caught and free-range meats.

Most people do well with 20–30% of their calories from fat. That’s enough for health but not too much.

Rule #4: Hydration = Cognitive Uptime

Mild dehydration tanks focus faster than hunger. For IT pros, that’s dangerous.

  • Target: ½ gallon per day minimum.
  • Use electrolytes during long training or extended incident calls.

Think of hydration as uptime. Skip it, and your system crashes.

Rule #5: Structure Beats Willpower, Every Time

No one does well by guessing. Like securing a system, lasting results come from discipline and routine.

  • Meal prep → Simple, repeatable meals built ahead of time.
  • Macro targets: track for a few weeks until you get the feel.
  • Boundaries: Sleep, fuel, and downtime are mandatory security controls.

The goal is not perfection; it’s persistence. Remember, chasing perfection can actually slow your progress. Aim for 80 to 90 percent consistency for the best results.

Closing Thoughts

Nutrition is about training, discipline, and resilience, and it all starts with each meal.

Forget fad diets, quick fixes, and guilt. Focus on what helps you daily: sufficient protein, good carbs, healthy fats, water, and sticking to a plan that eliminates guesswork.

Anyone with a strong body and sharp mind doesn’t just survive the grind; they thrive in it.

Soon, I’ll show you how to build simple, sustainable meal prep systems. You can protect your body and mind just like you protect your network: with structure and planning.